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Difference between men and women in handling commitments January 30, 2011

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Why Women Want Commitment And Men Dread It ???
In a relationship the woman wants commitment and the man dreads from the big ‘C’ (commitment). There are a lot of ‘relationship experts’ who have hundreds of cure for men to turn from commitment-phobic to commitment devotee, but none works. The men have just one problem with the women, that is, commitment.

Commitment to one woman doesn’t exist in a man’s dictionary! We men are admirers of ‘women’, not ‘a woman’, though there are some exceptions where the man commits himself to a woman right from the start. The majority of the men, however, just accept sticking to one woman, quite late.

Men are labeled dogs because they hop from one woman to another time and again. We are pure admirers of beauty; we just can’t resist the womankind. Besides, if the man leaves a woman for another woman, then the woman should blame the woman! Competition is always there. It’s not the man’s fault! We are weak creatures. We are either in search of new adventures (men who actively search for new women) or just plain curious (when a woman approaches us).

Anyway, enough of this stupid justification! Why are men the way they are? Why are women the way they are? I have a simple answer!

A girl grows up to be a woman with stories of a (mark it’s ‘a’) prince charming on a white horse who will sweep her off the feet and they’ll live happily ever after in their magical kingdom. Right?

The story for the boys is a little twisted!

A boy grows up to be a man with stories of Casanova stealing the hearts of so many women. (Please mark, its ‘women’) For a man, Hugh Hefner (Playboy founder) is the ultimate MAN!!! (For obvious reasons – Playboy mansion full of young girls strutting in their birthday suits!!! It can’t better than this) Men all over the world are just proud of Mr. Hef for living an ultimate man’s life! FYI, he is 80 and currently has 6 Playboy bunnies as his girlfriends with an average age of less than 20!

So you see, the basic psychology towards the opposite gender is completely opposite! Women want one man and men can’t think of being with just one!

So men and women, lets not blame each other! Let’s blame the society for putting stories into our head which messes us up. (:p)

As a girl (not woman yet), I don’t blame if men always think of being with many women. But a REAL “MAN” will only be with one “WOMAN” for the rest of his life.

No offense, just reposted from: http://aamirayubi.blogspot.com/2010/10/why-women-want-commitment-and-men-dread.html

Insomnia – Craig David January 28, 2011

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Dari jaman pertama kali saya denger lagu ini dari tetangga kosan yang nyetel lagu ini seharian (seriusan ini mah seharian lagunya itu terus gak diganti-ganti), saya baru tau barusan kalo penyanyinya adalah Craig David.
Ya ampyuunn,, kemana aja chiikk??? -___-‘

Nih, saya kasih bonus liriknya juga.. Biar puas puas puasss (apa sih)

Insomnia – Craig David

I never thought that I’d fall in love, love, love, love
But it grew from a simple crush, crush, crush, crush
Being without you girl, I was all messed up, up, up, up
When you walked out, said that you’d had enough-nough-nough-nough

Been a fool, girl I know
Didn’t expect this is how things would go
Maybe in time, you’ll change your mind
Now looking back i wish i could rewind

Because i can’t sleep til you’re next to me
No i can’t live without you no more
Oh i stay up til you’re next to me
Til this house feels like it did before
Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah
Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah

Remember telling my boys that I’d never fall in love, love, love, love
You used to think I’d never find a girl I could trust, trust, trust, trust
And then you walked into my life and it was all about us, us, us, us
But now I’m sitting here thinking I messed the whole thing up, up, up, up

Been a fool (fool), girl I know (know)
Didn’t expect this is how things would go
Maybe in time (time), you’ll change your mind (mind)
Now looking back i wish i could rewind

Because i can’t sleep til you’re next to me
No i can’t live without you no more (without you no more)
Oh i stay up til you’re next to me (to me)
Til this house feels like it did before (Because it)
Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah
Feels like insomnia ah ah (Ah), Feels like insomnia ah ah

Ah, i just can’t go to sleep
Cause it feels like I’ve fallen for you
It’s getting way too deep
And i know that it’s love because

I can’t sleep til you’re next to me
No i can’t live without you no more (without you no more)
Oh i stay up til you’re next to me (to me)
Til this house feels like it did before
Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah
Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah

Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah
Feels like insomnia ah ah, Feels like insomnia ah ah

Lyrics from: http://www.metrolyrics.com/insomnia-lyrics-craig-david.html

Hati-hati Anda menjadi insomnia….

What a girl wants January 28, 2011

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I wanna thank you for giving me time to breathe
Like a rock you waited so patiently
While I got it together
While I figured it out
I only looked but I never touched
‘Cause in my heart was a picture of us
Holdin’ hands, makin’ plans and it’s lucky for me you understand

What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever makes me happy sets you free
And I’m thanking you for knowing exactly
What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever keeps me in your arms
And I’m thanking you for being there for me
Yeah Yeah

A weaker man might have walked away
But you had faith
Strong enough to move over and give me space
While I got it together
While I figured it out
They say if you love something let it go
If it comes back it’s yours
That’s how you know
It’s for keeps, yeah, it’s for sure
And you’re ready and willin’
To give me more than

What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever makes me happy sets you free
And I’m thanking you for giving it to me
What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever keeps me in your arms
And I’m thanking you for being there for me
Yeah Yeah

A girl needs somebody sensitive but tough
Somebody there when the goin’ gets rough
Every night he’ll be giving his love
To just one girl

Somebody cool but real tender too
Somebody, baby, just like you
Can keep me hangin’ around
With the one who always knew

What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever makes me happy sets you free
And I’m thanking you for knowing exactly
What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever keeps me in your arms
And I’m thanking you for being there for me
Yeah Yeah

By: Christina Aguilera


Hell yeah, that’s so true.. :”>

Drugs.. January 28, 2011

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Berikut ini adalah list obat yang saya konsumsi selama seminggu kemarin dan seminggu mendatang..
(untuk keterangan lebih lengkap, silakan klik gambarnya)

Cefadroxil: Antibiotik (golongan Sefalosporin) untuk bakteri yang menginfeksi saluran pernapasan

Nutriflam: Mengurangi peradangan di saluran pernapasan

Anadex: Meringankan gejala flu

Imunos: Multivitamin herbal (Echinacea) yang cocok untuk penyembuhan infeksi saluran pernapasan

Cetirizine: Obat alergi generasi kedua

Theragran-M: Multivitamin+mineral kompliiitttt!!!

Valacyclovir: Antiviral untuk si Varicella zoster

Acyclovir: Salep antiviral untuk Varicella zoster juga..

Wew.. banyak juga ya… T_____T

Menambah tinggi badan di usia 20-an? Mengapa tidak? January 27, 2011

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Banyak referensi mengatakan pertumbuhan tubuh wanita terhenti di usia 18-21 tahun. Tapi tenang, Anda masih memiliki kesempatan menambah tinggi badan di atas usia itu. Caranya, kombinasikan asupan makanan, latihan fisik, dan tidur teratur hingga usia 30 tahun.

Gaya hidup sehat hingga selepas masa remaja, masih memungkinkan seseorang tumbuh paling sedikit 2-4 inci atau 5-10 sentimeter secara alami.

Ada beberapa latihan yang bisa dilakukan untuk memaksimalkan tinggi badan. Lakukan latihan berikut untuk mendorong pertumbuhan, memperpanjang tulang belakang, meningkatkan fleksibilitas dan memperkuat otot-otot perut:

Lari cepat jarak pendek (sprint)

Latihan ini bermanfaat meningkatkan pelepasan hormon pertumbuhan. Penekanan pada otot kaki selama latihan berdampak pada pemanjangan tulang dan otot.

Tetapi jangan terlalu sering melakukannya karena dapat menyebabkan pembengkakan pada otot dan tendon. Sprint dianjurkan pada permukaan alami seperti lantai atau rumput, bukan beton.

Menendang

Berdiri dengan kaki lebar dan angkat satu kaki kemudian lakukan tendangan. Ulangi minimal 20 tendangan pada satu kaki dan kemudian beralih ke kaki yang lain. Lakukan latihan ini selama 20 kali, karena dapat memperpanjang tulang kering dan paha.

Lompat

Berdirilah di depan bangku atau tangga setinggi kaki. Untuk memulai, lompat dengan satu kaki dalam sepuluh hitungan. Lalu, ulangi dengan kaki lain. Lakukan gerakan melompat hingga tiga kali. Anda bisa beristirahat di sela latihan.

Bersepeda

Gerakan mengayuh sepeda membuat jari kaki terus mencapai pedal. Ini merupakan peregangan yang bisa membuat kaki lebih panjang. Lakukanlah selama sekitar 10-15 menit. Anda juga dapat menggunakan sepeda statis atau stationary cycle.

Berenang

Olahraga satu ini memang sangat efektif untuk membuat tubuh fit dan lebih fleksibel. Lakukan renang gaya dada dan lakukan minimal 20 menit.

Lompat tali

Latihan ini sangat menyenangkan, apalagi jika Anda sambil mendengarkan musik menghentak. Lakukan sebanyak 300 kali setiap hari.

Berayun

Gunakan penahan atau ambang pintu yang tinggi. Anda dapat membelinya di toko peralatan olahraga. Awali posisi dengan berdiri lalu biarkan tubuh berayun. Posisi kaki bisa lurus atau ditekuk, buatlah tubuh senyaman mungkin. Lakukan gerakan ini setidaknya 10 kali dalam sehari.

Free Hand

Berdirilah tegak dalam ruangan yang luas dan tarik napas dalam-dalam. Angkat tangan letakan di tingkat bahu, lalu dorong tangan sejauh mungkin dan lepaskan napas. Ulangi 8 -10 kali.

Tarik napas dan kembali memosisikan tangan. Lalu, angkat tumit sambil berdiri jinjit, hembuskan napas, ulangi 80-10 kali. Tarik napas dan angkat lengan terentang di atas kepala. Lalu ayunkan ke dalam dengan arah melingkar dan buang napas. Ulangi 80-10 kali.

Pilih latihan yang paling cocok untuk Anda. Tapi harus dilakukan ecara teratur dan konsisten. Cobalah untuk memiliki waktu teratur untuk latihan Anda sehingga Anda dapat merasakan efeknya.

Selamat mencoba..

Sumber: http://id.news.yahoo.com/viva/20110126/tls-ingin-tubuh-lebih-tinggi-coba-cara-i-34dae5e.html

#Ugh, artikel ini pas banget deh buat saya.. Nyahaha

Thank You January 26, 2011

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Thank you for today.. 🙂

A tasty week January 25, 2011

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This whole week I didn’t leave the house. Of course, I always eat home made foods. And fortunately, thank God, my tongue was still good when I was sick. This is a wonderful week with delightful kind of soup.
Chicken fillet, minced meat, meat balls, sausages, tofus, tempes, carrots, potatoes, tomatoes, celeries, with wonderful taste of soup.
I wonder, even I always eat soup (with some modification of ingredients) for whole week, I didn’t feel saturated. The soups weren’t bland, but very tasty. I wanna eat more and more! Thanks so much, Mom!

I also ate 3 to 5 fingers of banana per day. =))

Banana is good for your health!

Okay, time for medicines then go to bed.
My body, my bussiness.
See you tomorrow. 🙂

The Drama Queen: Blair Waldorf January 24, 2011

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Do you ever seen Gossip Girl??
Yes, that’s one of TV series from USA which has stories about the scandals of Manhattan’s elites. The storyline is quite fast and complicated.
I don’t want to discuss about the story here, but I want to tell you that I am adoring Blair Waldorf. She’s also being a drama queen besides the Gossip Girl on the story. Blair Waldorf played by Leighton Meester, one of the world’s prettiest actress.

I don’t like her as Leighton Meester with her natural blonde straight hair and innocent face.

The innocent Leighton Meester

I’d rather love her as Blair Waldorf, the drama queen with the way she talk, her gestures, wardrobes, styles. Whatever she wear, whatever she use for her make up, even she always manipulative, she never looks awful. She’s truly a Manhattan’s elite. On my thought, Blair is the most beautiful character that I ever known. And she’s perfect! Like a barbie doll.. LOL

Love her wavy brown hair. And look, the make-up made her face's like perfect

She is so sophisticated

This is my favorite dress

J'adore this outfit very much!

She looks very gorgeous!

And,, the most important thing that she is a perfect, glam, manipulative, fierce drama bitch!

Of course, a drama queen belongs to a drama king.. Play your own game, guys!

I really appreciate what a blogger told us! LOL

Watchout beautiful readers, don’t let your money fly away to get the very update fashion like the queen B’s..!!

You know you love me..

X.O.X.O

Does Jack look like Finn?? January 22, 2011

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Jack Hanafie is a contestant of “Indonesia Mencari Bakat 2” (some kind of Britain’s Got Talent in Indonesia) who has jazzy voice like Michael Bublé. I like him because he’s so handsome (not because his talent actually). And,, on my second tought, he looks like somebody on TV. Yes, he reminds me to Finn Hudson at Glee! Finn also has brilliant talent on his voice.

Jack Hanafie Vs. Finn Hudson

Don’t they look like twins? 😛

Photo source:
http://temankutersayang.blogspot.com/2010/12/jack-hanafi.html
http://alexestevao.blogspot.com/2010/08/glee-em-busca-da-fama.html

Masa Kuliah January 22, 2011

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Baca blog temen tentang waktu kuliah dulu, jadi ingin saya posting ulang deh,, tapi pakai emoticon bawang onion mood.. Coba kita lihat bagaimana hasilnya..

Menjelang semester baru..

Minggu pertama..

Minggu kedua..

Minggu ketiga..

Menjelang UTS..

Sewaktu UTS..

Setelah UTS..

Sebelum UAS..

Waktu lihat jadwal UAS..

7 hari sebelum UAS..

6 hari sebelum UAS..

5 hari sebelum UAS..

4 hari sebelum UAS..

3 hari sebelum UAS..

2 hari sebelum UAS..

1 hari sebelum UAS..

Malam sebelum UAS..

1 jam sebelum UAS..

Ketika UAS..

Sesaat setelah keluar ruang ujian..

Ketika nilai akhir keluar..

Ketika ditanya ortu tentang nilai..

Ketika liburan..

Dan begitulah seterusnya selama saya kuliah di ITB..

Tapi akhirnya saya bisa lulus juga kok dengan hasil yang cukup memuaskan.. huehehe

Ayoo semangaatt buat yang mau atopun yang masih kuliah!!!
Jangan ikutin emoticon di atas yaaaa pas kuliah… hohoho..

XoXo.